The Retreat Structure

The retreat will run as follows:

  • Arrive at and book into Lupinari on Saturday 5 September 2026 with welcome drinks and dinner at 7pm.
  • Day 1- Sunday, 6 September 2026, (9.00am for 9.30am –4.30pm for 5pm each day with a long table Tuscan lunch each workshop day)
  • Day 2 and 3 – Monday 7 and Tuesday 8 September 2026
  • There will be a rest day on Wednesday 9 September 2026
  • Day 4 & 5 – Thursday 10 September 2026 and finishing mid-afternoon on Friday 11 September 2026

 


The theory underpinning our approach to the retreat is that you cannot separate the people from the problem (Fisher and Ury in ‘Getting to Yes) or the problem from the people (Baruch Bush and Folger in ‘The Promise of Mediation’).

The people and the problem are so entwined that any division devalues both. Humans are defined by their interactions and are more than the sum of the parts.

The retreat is built on the creative power of human interaction rather than mediation as a purely transactional ‘art of the deal’ process. It is humanising the mediation process.

For an in-depth analysis see our 2012 (updated) paper:

‘Shifting the Focus from Mediating the Problem to Mediating the Moment – Moving Beyond ‘Getting to Yes’ and ‘The Promise of Mediation’  see this link: Beyond Getting to Yes and Transformative Mediation


We are challenging participants to step out of their intellectual mental state and experience being totally present in the moment in this very earthy Tuscan setting. 

To allow the agenda to emerge out of the interaction rather than out of analysis.

Continuing Professional Development

This course will provide up to a maximum of 20 hours Continuing Professional Development under Section 6 (b) (i) of the Australian National Mediation Standards. It may be eligible for CPDs in England and Wales.